Sometimes when you travel for a long time (and a long time doesn’t have to be that long. It only takes a few weeks to forget about the responsibilities of every day life) you start to take things for granted. You see so many beautiful things every day that you start to compare them. To put them on a scale. You think’ “this beach is not as pretty as the beach we saw last week” and forget to appreciate that moment, that destination, that experience for how unique and exciting and beautiful it is.
You’re not necessarily going to fall in love with every place you visit. Not every destination is going to be at the top of your list. But that doesn’t mean you can’t enjoy it and appreciate it and take a moment to be thankful for where you are. I didn’t like Vienna as much as Budapest, I didn’t like Sequoia and much as Death Valley, I didn’t like Vegas as much as San Francisco. But I’d choose any of those places in a heart beat over 9-5 days at the office.
I always look back at the day we got lost in the back streets of Venice and wish I had taken a moment to step back and think about the situation I was in. Here we were wandering the beautiful cobble stoned streets of this historical city. We had wandered out of the tourist filled centre and now we were walking through empty, almost haunted laneways. It was pretty and peaceful and we should have savoured every minute of it. But we didn’t. Because instead of looking at how lucky we were we just felt hot and tired and we were lost. They aren’t really any signposts in Venice and they wasn’t anyone around to ask. We were fed up and worried that we wouldn’t find our way back in time to get the bus. We got angry at each other.
When I look back now I wish we’d just relaxed, enjoyed the moment, appreciated how lovely it was. When you travel there are always going to be stressful moments. You’re always going to get lost or miss your bus. But sometimes those situations can turn into your best travel moments. They can become the crazy stories that you’ll tell forever. You just have to make the best of your circumstances first. And I’d certainly rather get lost in Venice then be sitting in an office!